Testimonials

It really makes my day when people take time out of their lives to let me know that they found value in something I’ve shared.  Here’s a collection of compliments I’ve received in the past few years.
I welcome your comments.

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February, 2008 – Mary P.
“"I totally love your direct approach to teaching. So few come right out with it and explain exactly what they mean. Thank you so much for being who you are and doing what you have done."

January, 2008 – Shane
“This site has really helped me in my journey to find and consolidate both my belief and therein myself. Thank you.”

December, 2007 – Eddie H.
“I just want to say that I really appreciate being able to look through your site. I want to thank you immensely. Your insight is & your honesty is really appreciated.”

October, 2007 – Leslie
“I've never met another Pagan in person, and I can't afford to buy all the books I'd like to buy. I've been searching for years for a website that had all the information I was looking for, and when I found the Firepit, I didn't realize just how huge it was until I started seeing multiple links on every single page. I've been spending the last two weeks reading and re-reading your articles every chance I get, and you've answered questions that I've had for years. I've always felt that I didn't pay enough attention to this path that I chose for myself, but you've inspired me to embrace it fully. Thank you so much.”

October, 2007 – Rev. falonMOON
“Been reading this site for YEARS- you are inspirational to me!”

September, 2007 – Terry M.
“I love your site. You are indeed gifted, and I hope that you are continually blessed. Thank you.”

July, 2007 – Loaui
“Thank you so much for making your site. I am basically a seeker and all the information you have put together is an excellent resource. I want to especially thank you for the information about grounding and shielding. I am extremely empathic so for a lot of my life I have stayed in my house away from people because I had a hard time distinguishing their emotions from mine. Thank you so much for sharing all your insights and information. You probably don’t know how many people you have helped.”

May, 2007 – Eirene
“I am so grateful for the love and truth you have invested in this site. Your vision is much appreciated.”

November, 2006 – David, SilverLight Source Online Wicca Store
“I just wanted to take a minute to thank you for putting together such a great resource for the pagan community.  Flame's Firepit is truly inspirational.”

October, 2006 – Randy
“I have not only enjoyed your site, but have taken knowledge away with me......thank you for sharing and giving. I am a member of another Pagan Site that has been and will probably remain my fav., but this site runs a real close second to it.......shucks, maybe I'll just have two favorites. Again, Thank You and Blessed Be.”

June, 2006 – Satori
“Flame, I could get lost on your site and forget there is a world going on around me for quite some time! What a great place.”

April, 2006 – Patrick
“Thank you so much for such a wonderful resource. You are truly amazing. I have found a new path.”

December, 2005 – Gaia
“I lost track of time as I stared into the flames and whiled away an entire afternoon sitting by your fire. I thank you for the experience.”

August, 2005 – Nikki
“I just wanted to say thank you for all the straightforward advice and information you gave on all the wiccan/magickal/spiritual topics that I could think of! This is the most comprehensive and understandable site I have seen of this nature in a long time (and also so organized, I love that). Thank you for sharing you knowledge and experience. I will pass the word on about your site...”

August, 2005 - Gerald
“I just want to tell you how important following your advice has been to my personal and spiritual growth. I should have emailed sooner.”

April, 2005 - RedHeadedIrishHedgeWitch
“Your site is excellent! As I am not much of one for foo-foo (fluff) in my spiritual practice, I love your well thought out, educated, and most importantly well-lived writings, explanations, definitions, and teachings. You obviously have simply not regurgitated all the foo-foo that finds itself on soooooo many websites. Yours is a true spirital practice of divinity and not simply one to impress.”

March, 2005 - Michael T.
“I was on a Journey of Exploration and Expression in cyberspace when I came upon the Watering Hole for the Spirit which is your site. I found it a Passionate Vision of Vitality and Lightness Enhancing the Flow of Positive Energy. May yours be a Sunlit Path Nurtured by Sacred Mother Earth. I found your site to be a Creative Loving Expression of the Self. I enjoyed the Artistic Solitude of your Creative Garden Chapel. Any Expression of the Self is a Communion with the Divine. Well done. I wish you Health , Harmony and Spiritual Evolution. May your Souls Journey give Birth to Wisdom that you may Live a Lifetime in Paradise.”

December, 2004 - winddancer (Re: Yule Ritual)
“i am a solitary wiccan student of about 2 years now. recently i had lost interest in the yule and christmas season but reading your yule ritual has brought it back for me. thank you”

December, 2004 - Caiti (Re: Connection Prayer)
“I saw the site and loved it... but the main reason i joined because of the prayers... you posted them on May 6, 97... and a year after that i was diagnosed as diabetic... and the first prayer i read was the connection prayer and it just kind of felt like fate...”
November, 2004 - Dusty Miller
“It is really rare for me to locate a site as well developed as yours, but when I do I certainly have to leave words of gratitude.”

October, 2004 - Nyx Wolfwalker, Pathwalkers.net (Re: 2004 Crone Award)
“You have a interesting site, and [it] looks well cared for and loved.”

September, 2004 - feyth
“I attended your workshop about Shamanic Wicca at Pagan Pride Day in North Andover, MA, on September 19, 2004. I wanted to let you know how much I enjoyed it and wanted to tell you how much I appreciated your coming all the way out here to spend the day. You answered my question, and left me with many more (that's a good thing!) and I look forward to trying some of the techniques you suggested.  I was greatly reassured by your answer and I know now that I'm slowly, slowly on the right track. Thank you again-it was wonderful.”

September, 2004 - Tim D. (Re: “Re-Treat Yourself”, Llewellyn Journal)
“Nice article Flame. A personal retreat is one of those "it's so basic and obvious why didn't I think of doing it" ideas that are great to present to people. Well done!”

September, 2004 - Erica (Re: “Re-Treat Yourself”, Llewellyn Journal)
“Nice article... Thank you for the reminder to take a deep breath and relax!”

August, 2004 - Linda A. (Re: “Auntie Ethel”)
“Thank you for sharing that story. Magical and warm and wow on the Ookie spookie scale! <grin>, always a good thing to have!”

August 18, 2004 - Dawn C. (Re: “One Body, One Breath”, newWitch Magazine)
“Hi Flame, just wanted to say that your article was wonderful, very good stuff about the different types of yoga there are.”

July, 2004 - RHawk (Re: “War & Peace for Pagans”, Llewellyn’s ‘04 Wicca Almanac)
“I felt a strong response to what you were saying. I completely agree with you that war and any type of aggressive reaction is not the answer, and I highly respect your stance on taking a pacifist approach. I am thankful for people like you who persevere despite such obvious disregard to the public's opinion, and I hope that one day our views will be taken seriously. In the meantime, peace be with you, and thank-you for being such a motivating spirit.”

July, 2004 - DameNickum
“Flame, you are so amazing, it seems that when my fingers and mind wander with questions plaguing me, I find what I was looking for at your site whether it be information or simply the opportunity to feel the peace that flows from a spirit filled site.”

June, 2004 - Hikaru (Re: Llewellyn’s 04 Wicca Almanac)
“Over here on the other side of the world you have at least one person who is very interested in what you have to say. Just read your article in the 2004 Llewelyn's Wicca Almanac. Nice work!”

June, 2004 - Minus
“I personally am using Flame's website (is "using" the politically correct word?) and learning much from there. Believe it or not, I physically feel the warmth of the firepit we're sitting around.”

April, 2004 - Little RavenSword
“I must first say your site is one of the more impressive sites I've been to in a while...”

April, 2004 - Tim
“I decided I would take 30 minutes out of my day and begin to read your articles, only to find myself spending over 3 hours reading and re-reading - and I'm still not done! Fascinating and incredibly helpful.”

March, 2004 - Sadie
“I just wanted to say that I found your site to be very informative. I stumbled upon your site while looking for tips and advice on meditation. Your advice seemed very worthwhile and I can't wait to try it. :) Also, THANK YOU for displaying those images! I finally have an idea of what a nicely assembled altar looks like!”

February, 2004 - Red Phoenix, http://www.msnusers.com/BetwixttheSeaandSky
“I am contacting you... to compliment you on the great site and information you have at the Firepit. The site is beautifully done, and your information is both interesting and insightful... Keep up the great work, your site is a fantastic touchstone for paganism on the net and is appreciated by explorers such as myself.”

January, 2004 - Kristle
“I am currently researching a paper on Wicca for an English class at Western Wash. Univ., and I happened by your website. It has been extremely helpful, both for my paper, and my own interest in the practice.”

January, 2004 - JS
“Well Thank you for sharing with all of us, other free spirits and souls all your knowledge and wisdom. People like me searching for that spark that will ignite a better understanding really appreciate your work, and the special ways you are helping all of us, walking that same path it has being opened centuries ago by other free spirits and souls. Well anyway I'm really blessed today by reading all your traveling or journeying information and it did answer some questions I had, also inspired me to keep searching and trying. I have to say before I finish, your pictures of Altars are really impressive and they talk by themselves, as I stared at them I felt a tremendous energy , just like if the pictures transmitted me with energy with thoughts and feelings.”

January, 2004 - Suz
“...visually stunning, thoughtful and intelligent.”

January, 2004 - Cathie D.
“Blessed Be! An exceptional web site for seekers interested in Wicca!  A great way to gain information simply without being too intense and a superb starting point for anyone seeking a path into the pagan religion! Thank You!”

December, 2003 - Cara
“I love your website so much!  It was very inspiring and it touched me deeply.”

November, 2003 - Neva J.
“I absolutely love your site and wanted you to know that just by reading some things in there I actually feel more calm and peaceful right now... your site is a wonderful gift... I want to thank you for creating your site... I also absolutely love your Spirit Guide Meditation.”

November, 2003 - Jennifer
“I stumbled upon your website yesterday, and was deeply moved within moments... reading about Shamanic Wicca [felt] like coming home.  So for that, I thank you from the bottom of my heart.  I now feel I have a new purpose and direction for study.”

November, 2003 - Chris S.
“I reached your website through a search and find it to be a wonderful resource!  Your words have inspired me on my search for my “path”, and at this point I am very interested in making Shamanic Wicca my way of life.”

October, 2003 - Clay
“I have benefited from your site as much as I did/have from Witches Voice, which seems to be the "gold standard... I enjoyed your thoughts on "The Fertile Darkness."  How many of us experience such things, in one way or another?  Most, I believe. I enjoyed your perspective.  It is making me think...  Keep up the good work and know that I will continue to learn from and enjoy your site for a long time."

October, 2003 - Linda
“Thank you so much for the wonderful and valuable information to help me along my journey...  Your website is also wonderful.”

October, 2003 - Remiah
“I wanted to tell you how much I truly appreciate your website.  I was wondering if you've ever considered putting your site at www.flamesfirepit.com or .org or something of that nature? I'd gladly purchase the required hosting and the domain name and donate them to you if you'd let me.”

October, 2003 - Diahna (Re: “Proof”)
“Wow! Thank you Flame, that really helped to clear things up for me as well. I too had the same question but not the courage to ask (fear of offending / not believing) You articulate that so well. Your article was truly a blessing for me.”

September, 2003 - EmptySoul (Re: FAQ - Auras)
“AHHHHH!!!!!!  Oh my god it worked!!  I went to the firepit and tried the aura thing, and it seriously works. Wow that's amazing.”

September, 2003 - Wings
“I just so wanted to send a message to you to say how wonderful I think it is... Thanks for running such a cool site.”

August, 2003 - Rachel
“I just wanted to say that your website has been so helpful to me and thanks for everything you have put down in there.  I am taking a Wicca class and it is so helpful for the lessons that I do. Every time I need to search for something your website is the first I go to.”

August, 2003 - Sharon H.
“I wanted to thank you for your website.  I find it enlightening, and loving.”

July, 2003 - Rev.  Dr.  Melissa Jones aka “WhiteOwl” (Re: “Ordination Ceremony”)
“I was looking for an ordination rite for the actual ceremony that I will have and found the one for Poohzen and LOVED IT!”

July, 2003 - Old Soul
“I have just been visiting your rather remarkable site, looking over especially the information on astral travel and Shamanic journeying... Needless to say, I found your information very interesting.”

April, 2003 - Odin aka "-Skye-"
“What a wonderful place.  It answered every question I have ever had on meditation... honestly every one.  You surely know what you are talking about... I just had to tell you how wonderful your site is...”

April, 2003 - Inanna aka “Shadow Witch”,
www.shadow-witch.com/theshadowwitchwebreview.html
“The amount of content of the site is incredibly vast - once I think I’m done, I find even more to read! There really is a lot to see here, and I feel it’s worth spending some time looking through it all.”  (See complete Review here)

March, 2003 - Gerrbear
“I just wanted to let you know how much I enjoyed visiting your website.  It is a wonderful combination of information and humor.”

February, 2003 - Charnel
“Keep the website as fantastic as it is!  It really is my online text book of knowledge!

February, 2003 - Macha C.  (Re: “War & Pacifism”)
“I hope that you don't mind, but I just had to forward your excellent article on War with Iraq (Jan 03) to all my email friends, family and acquaintances. I also took the liberty of sending it to 'you-know-who' in Washington D.C. Very well written.”

February, 2003 - Rhiannon W.
“It is a great site and you should be very proud of it.  I think the Wiccan/Pagan FAQ is very helpful for the curious and the beginners on our path...  I think your site helps overcome the “nasties” of the path.”

February, 2003 - Gaabriel (Re: “Imbolc Peace Prayer”)
“That was verry beautifully put.”

February, 2003 - Kitty (Re: “FAQ - Karma”)
“I loved your explanation of Karma.”

January, 2003 - Lindsey G-K
“...*man oh man* do I love your web site!... I adore your site!  Timing is amazing sometimes... I really needed to be inspired when I went to your site.  Too cool!”

January, 2003 - Jennie (Re: “War & Pacifism”)
“A VERY well written and well thought out article, Flame. Thank you for sharing it. Now can we get it out to the rest of America? Every American should read it. Again, my admiration and thanks.”

January, 2003 - Louise (Re: “War & Pacifism”)
“I read your wonderful assessment of the situation with a great deal of interest and relief! Not that I doubted for one moment that there were others, probably many others, who saw this as I do and felt this way as well, but relief that someone had put it into calm, sensible, understandable words. Many thanks and Brightest Blessings and to quote from the old days--RIGHT ON, RIGHT ON!!”

January, 2003 - Faramir (Re: “War & Pacifism”)
“Wonderful.  Thank you for this one.”

January, 2003 - Willow (Re: “War & Pacifism”)
“WOOOHOOOOOOOOO! You go!!!!  Well put!!”

January, 2003 - Annundalwe (Re: “War & Pacifism”)
“That was great!! ... That was awesome putting it into words so well, with great writing!”

January, 2003 - Andrea
“You did a good job on your site and I appreciate how you make the information easily available.”

January, 2003 - Dream Maker
“I went to your web page today and I’d like to say that it was very good.  Now I can understand your way with words.”

January, 2003 - Bearmother (Re: “The Dreaming Spirit”)
“Thank you for your essay on Dreams... your essay helped so much.  Thanks again.”

December, 2002 - moonkeeper (Re: “Solstice Thoughts”)
“That was truly beautiful..sounds like a winter's morn up in alaska...truly beautiful.”

December, 2002 - thyme (Re: “Solstice Thoughts”)
“Ho my starrs that was truly beautiful flame thank you, The holidays are always emotional for me (not in a bad way)just emotional. And that just made my day.”

December, 2002 - Lisa S.  (Re: “Celebrating Yule”)
“I want to thank you for the uplifting and relevant article I read on Witchvox.com.  Your article was extremely timely and reaffirmed my time now, and what is truly important.  Thank you so much for your inspiration.”

December, 2002 - Angela D.  (Re: “Celebrating Yule”)
“I just wanted to tell you that I really enjoyed your article on Yule... Thanks again for a beautiful article.”

Darkstar Awards
December, 2002 - Darkstar, www.InTheMist.com
“I just love your attitude and your site is Superb!...  I don't know if you accept awards... and believe me, I usually don't just give them away without an application.. However.. your site is a shoo-in for my most coveted Award (The Web Force Conjunction Award)!...  You are also quite worthy of my Magickal Maiden Award and your site is a prime example of my Web Radiance Award as well...  I've also added you to my Pagan Links Page (Personal Pages) because your site is such a wonderful resource!”

November, 2002 - Joel W.
“I read a lot of your web page, and just have a feeling that I can trust you. [I feel] you will not steer me in a direction that would ever be harmful to me because you are worthy of my trust and respect.”

November, 2002 - Celtic Storm
“You truly are a wealth of knowledge ... Thanks so much for this ... It's wonderful! Just simply wonderful ... This actually helps me more than you could ever know...”

November, 2002 - Lenoramoon (Re: “Call of the Ministry”)
“That was a wonderful article.  It sent chills down my spine the way you expressed some of the same factors that I too have felt in the transformation from my old life into Wiccan. You did an awesome job. I'm sure Mother is smiling down upon you in great satisfaction.”

November, 2002 - Artemisia  (Re: “Call of the Ministry”)
“I enjoyed your article in TWV, as well as your website.  Keep up the great work!”

November, 2002 - Joleen
“Anyway thanx again for all your help. Your web page is great and very informative.”

November, 2002 - Jennifer
“Thank you SO much. You don't happen to teach in Southern California, do you? :-)”

October, 2002 - Kris
“Flame i love your website...it is very informational and interesting...i go there often.”

September, 2002 - Lyneue
“I really enjoy your straighforward, funny way of putting things as you are teaching. Thanks for putting more information out there for me to think about.”

September, 2002 - Midnight
“I think it is awsome. You have a great flare for expressing your views intelligently yet simplistically. I hope it serves you and masses well.”

September, 2002 - Lena (aka Swedishfairy)
“Your site is beautiful and very informative- Your pictures are great, too”

September, 2002 -  Rosemary K, Elder, HPS Nomadic Chantry.
“As one who is usually bored, I liked it all. rk”

August, 2002 - Raven (Eclectic Witch Auction)
“I ran across your site while surfing. You have a beautifully well done site.”

August, 2002 - unsigned
“thank you... ...from a seeker that knows now that he is one”

June, 2002 - Casarianaro
“I am touched by what I saw on your site, as well as what I read..  You have touched me.. Deeper then I can express.”

July, 2000 - Lena L.
“Flame, thank you for your personal insight and your time... Keep up with the Faith and continue with your valuable Guidance.”

December, 1996 - Atheneris
“To me, a good teacher is someone you can trust, who you respect and has no ulterior motives.  Personally, I have found that I cannot learn magic from people I am close to.  I guess my main worry is that it will affect my relationships.  Good teachers know both their student’s limitations and their own.  They also do not push their ideas or beliefs onto their students.

I have been working with someone online.  (Flame RavenHawk)  I saw and read her posts for many months before she offered me help.  I greatly respect her and her opinions and she is not quick to judge.  She also doesn’t belittle my beliefs where they differ with hers.  This is the kind of person who makes a good teacher.

A bad teacher would be the opposite of this.  Someone who is teaching for reasons other than knowledge.  Someone who is teaching to gain power over others or to make themselves feel important.  Someone who forces their beliefs on their students or will not accept their students beliefs as being just as valid as their own... Someone who is inflexible, just to name a few.”